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Pathway 2: Caring When Death Is a Possibility - CarerHelp

Pathway 2: Caring When Death Is a Possibility

Realising that the person you are caring for is likely to die from an illness or disease that cannot be cured is a very difficult part of the caring journey. You may have been helping them for some time to manage their disease, but realise that it is progressing and death is now foreseeable. Or you may have found out through a diagnosis or specialist visit that their condition is terminal.

This awareness can create new fears and uncertainties. There are things to think about and plan for. It is also important that you take care of yourself.

The resources in this pathway can help you understand what is involved and organise practical supports.

 

This module covers:

  • Understanding what end of life means
  • How things can change when caring for someone at the end of life
  • How to find supports
  • Key matters to consider

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Key resources

The resources available below are relevant to this pathway. Most will have a PDF version you can print or save to your device. If you need help now, call the numbers listed under ‘Need help now?’.

Need help now?

Call 000 for emergency services and urgent assistance. If you need to talk, call Lifeline on 13 11 14.Call Carer Gateway Contact Centre for support and services (1800 422 737 Mon to Fri, 8am to 6pm).

Pathway 2 summary

This pathway (pdf, 449kb) outlines resources and tools that can be used when you become aware that death is a possibility.

Tips from carers

Carers with experience in caring for someone at the end of life have put together this list of tips (pdf, 209kb) for other carers.

Question prompt list

This resource (pdf, 577kb) provides a list of questions that you can use when you meet with your doctor or health care team.

Contact list

Having a contact list (pdf, 605kb) means all the details are together when you need them. You can also put together your emergency contacts. It can be handy to keep this on the fridge.

Self-care plan

Taking care of yourself is important if you are going to be able to care. Read the tips and make a plan (pdf, 105kb).

Tips for staying well

Read our practical tips (pdf, 324kb) on staying healthy. Eating well, exercise and seeing friends are all important.

Managing communications

You have an important role in managing communications with the health care team, family and friends. This resource (pdf, 545kb) gives you some tips for communicating with different people so that everyone understands what’s happening.

Helplines for carers

This resource gives you suggestions for helplines to contact (pdf, 550kb) if you need information about practical matters, help with a concern about a specific disease or urgent emotional support.

What is advance care planning?

It is important to speak to the person you are caring for about their wishes for end of life. This process is called advance care planning, which is explained in this factsheet from Advance Care Planning Australia.

Other CarerHelp sheets

 Setting up the health care team (pdf, 355kb)
Financial matters (pdf, 260kb)

CarerHelp videos

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Carer Check

Answering a quick set of questions can help you identify what you feel most concerned about and can point you to helpful resources.

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