Nicola Champion reflects on caring for her dad with terminal cancer towards end of life, in the rural town of Port Pirie South Australia. Being the sole carer for her dad and not receiving much support from professional community nurses, meant Nicola was often left feeling exhausted and isolated. In this blog, Nicola talks about the most challenging time during her dad's hospital visit in Adelaide, with medical staff not following her dad's Advanced Care Directive, leaving him over medicated and confused. The hospital experience had Nicola desperately attempting to bring her Dad home, where he wished to die.